LOSS OF SPOUSE SANCTUARY

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Retrieved 2026-11-07; covers tax years 2023–2025. Data: furp.org (index © the FURP Alliance; the records are public domain).

2025 · Form 990 · revenue $192K · expenses $68K · assets $472K

Also known as
C/O PAMELA L CONE
EIN
92-1324432
Address
17211 US HIGHWAY 71, ST JOSEPH, MO 64505-3744
NTEE code
P80 Centers to Support the Independence of Specific Populations (Human Services) published (IRS Business Master File)
Exempt type
501(c)(3): charitable, religious, educational, scientific or literary (corporation)
Ruling date
February 2023 (when the IRS recognized its exemption)
IRS status
Exempt (unconditional) (IRS Business Master File) IRS data ↗
Tax-deductible donations
Yes: listed in IRS Publication 78 (public charity) Pub 78 ↗
Foundation status
Public charity supported by the public (170(b)(1)(a)(vi))
Principal officer
Pamela L Cone (its 2022 Form 990-N)
Form 990-N e-postcards
1 filed, 2022 (organizations with gross receipts normally $50,000 or less file this instead of a full Form 990) IRS data ↗
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Mission

LOSS OF SPOUSE SANCTUARY IS DEDICATED TO OFFERING LOCAL-AREA WIDOWS AND WIDOWERS A SAFE PLACE IN A CHRIST-CENTERED ENVIRONMENT WHERE THEY CAN RELAX, READJUST, AND REJUVENATE THROUGH SOCIAL AND RECREATIONAL ACTIVITIES, BIBLE STUDIES, AND OTHER PROGRAMS, TO HELP THEMSELVES AND EACH OTHER DEAL PRODUCTIVELY WITH THE MANY LIFE CHANGES RESULTING FROM THE DEATH OF A SPOUSE. LOSS OF SPOUSE SANCTUARY IS NOT ORGANIZED FOR THE PRIVATE GAIN OF ANY PERSON.

Each tax year counts once: when a return was amended, only the latest return for that period is used below (superseded returns stay listed, greyed, under Finances).

People paid by the organization

None of the 16 people listed on these returns reported compensation from the organization. They are listed below.

Officers and directors, no compensation reported

16 people listed on the returns with $0 (or no amount) in every compensation column: current people first. Hours are as filed on the latest return each person appears on.

NameLatest titleYearsHrs/wk (latest)CompensationOrganizations
Ryan Byous PRESIDENT/CH2024-2025 Not reported $0 reported 1
Barbara Kelly SECRETARY2024-2025 Not reported $0 reported 1
Deann Young TREASURER2024-2025 Not reported $0 reported 1
Karen Dreyer DIRECTOR2024-2025 Not reported $0 reported 1
Valarie Bilecki VICE PRESIDE2025 Not reported $0 reported 1
Valerie Bilecki (former) VICE PRESIDE2024 Not reported $0 reported 1
Joe Tracy (former) PRESIDENT/CH2023 0 $0 reported 1
Jane Anderson (former) VICE PRESIDE2023 0 $0 reported 1
Pamela Cone (former) SECRETARY-CO2023 0 $0 reported 1
Alyssa Matthews (former) SECRETARY -2023 0 $0 reported 1
Charles Hayes (former) TREASURER -2023 0 $0 reported 1
Chris Olson (former) TREASURER -2023 0 $0 reported 1
Deb Lyons (former) PUBLIC RELAT2023 0 $0 reported 1
Jeff Penland (former) DIRECTOR2023 0 $0 reported 1
Larry Tracy (former) DIRECTOR2023 0 $0 reported 1
Director (former) DIRECTOR2023 0 $0 reported 1

People by year

2025 · 5 people listed · none paid · 3 employees
NameTitleHrs/wkFrom orgFrom relatedOtherTotalOrgs
RYAN BYOUS PRESIDENT/CH- $0$0$0 $01
VALARIE BILECKI VICE PRESIDE- $0$0$0 $01
BARBARA KELLY SECRETARY- $0$0$0 $01
DEANN YOUNG TREASURER- $0$0$0 $01
KAREN DREYER DIRECTOR- $0$0$0 $01
2024 · 5 people listed · none paid · 3 employees
NameTitleHrs/wkFrom orgFrom relatedOtherTotalOrgs
RYAN BYOUS PRESIDENT/CH- $0$0$0 $01
VALERIE BILECKI VICE PRESIDE- $0$0$0 $01
BARBARA KELLY SECRETARY- $0$0$0 $01
DEANN YOUNG TREASURER- $0$0$0 $01
KAREN DREYER DIRECTOR- $0$0$0 $01
2023 · 10 people listed · none paid
NameTitleHrs/wkFrom orgFrom relatedOtherTotalOrgs
JOE TRACY PRESIDENT/CH0 $0-- $01
JANE ANDERSON VICE PRESIDE0 $0-- $01
PAMELA CONE SECRETARY-CO0 $0-- $01
ALYSSA MATTHEWS SECRETARY -0 $0-- $01
CHARLES HAYES TREASURER -0 $0-- $01
CHRIS OLSON TREASURER -0 $0-- $01
DEB LYONS PUBLIC RELAT0 $0-- $01
JEFF PENLAND DIRECTOR0 $0-- $01
LARRY TRACY DIRECTOR0 $0-- $01
DIRECTOR DIRECTOR0 $0-- $01

Highest-paid independent contractors

No independent contractors reported.

Who gave

Contributor names are not public for this form type.

Public charities filing Form 990 or 990-EZ report large donors on Schedule B, but the IRS withholds their names and addresses from public copies. Private foundations (990-PF) are different: their contributors are public.

Finances

Newest first. Each filing: its name on one row, its figures on the row beneath. Greyed filings are superseded by a later return for the same period and are left out everywhere else on this page.

RevenueExpensesAssetsNet assetsContributionsProgram revenueOfficer payEmployeesVolunteers
2025 · Form 990 period ending 2025-12-31 · view filing · original 990 ↗
$192,052$67,868 $471,850$469,870 $181,359$0 -3-
2024 · Form 990 period ending 2024-12-31 · view filing · original 990 ↗
$280,091$42,532 $346,401$345,686 $276,399$0 -3-
2023 · Form 990EZ period ending 2023-12-31 · view filing · original 990 ↗
$117,236$12,109 $108,177$108,177 $117,694- ---

Funders of this organization

Not reported: no grants to this organization appear in the filings we have (tax years 2010 to 2025).

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SCOTTISH RITE FOUNDATION OF UTAHUTP80 $197,155$225,538 Executive Dir.$0 Same NTEE code P80, revenue within 2x
AFTER MILITARY SERVICETXP80 $254,216$301,922 Founder, President and CEO$55,820 Same NTEE code P80, revenue within 2x
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Where the money went

Every expense line on each return, biggest first: Form 990 Part IX (with its program, management and fundraising columns), 990-EZ Part I, or 990-PF Part I. Event marks lines the organization itself describes as events. “Events” in each summary adds those lines, conferences and meetings, and the direct costs of fundraising events. Unusual is not the same as improper. Many of these patterns have ordinary explanations. Check the filing.

2025 · Form 990 · $67,868 spent · pay $40,816 · grants $0 · events $0
LineAs describedTotalProgramManagementFundraisingShare
Other salaries and wages $34,106$17,053$17,053- 50.3%
Occupancy $8,047$7,032$1,015- 11.9%
Payroll taxes $6,710$3,355$3,355- 9.9%
Advertising and promotion $3,927$3,927-- 5.8%
Insurance $3,814$3,814-- 5.6%
Fees: accounting $2,970-$2,970- 4.4%
Other (as described)EVEMTS $2,436$2,436-- 3.6%
Depreciation and depletion $2,230$2,230-- 3.3%
Fees: legal $1,682-$1,682- 2.5%
Office expenses $1,439$1,022$417- 2.1%
Other (as described)SMALL TOOLS $238$238-- 0.4%
All other expenses $110$110-- 0.2%
Other (as described)OTHER MISC $96$96-- 0.1%
Other (as described)ONLINE DONATION FEES $63$63-- 0.1%
Fundraising events Eventdirect expenses; gross income $1,134-reported apart
Total$67,868100%

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2024 · Form 990 · $42,532 spent · pay $8,200 · grants $0 · events $0
LineAs describedTotalProgramManagementFundraisingShare
Occupancy $10,140$8,064$2,076- 23.8%
Fees: other services $9,341$9,341-- 22.0%
Other salaries and wages $7,572$3,786$3,786- 17.8%
Fees: legal $7,039-$7,039- 16.5%
Insurance $3,396$1,828$1,568- 8.0%
Other (as described)TAXES $1,548$1,548-- 3.6%
Fees: accounting $1,442-$1,442- 3.4%
Office expenses $738$602$136- 1.7%
Payroll taxes $628$314$314- 1.5%
Other (as described)SQUARE FEES $348$348-- 0.8%
Advertising and promotion $340$340-- 0.8%
Total$42,532100%

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2023 · Form 990EZ · $12,109 spent · pay $0 · grants $0 · events $742
LineAs describedTotalShare
Occupancy, rent, utilities, maintenance $4,503 37.2%
Other expenses (detail on Schedule O) $3,731 30.8%
Fees to independent contractors $3,693 30.5%
Printing, publications, postage $182 1.5%
Fundraising events Eventdirect expenses; gross income -$742reported apart
Total$12,109100%

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